My twin sister wants to move in with us. My partner said no.
Family · Berlin
Side A (age 61)
They're 9 months from running out of savings and the alternative is a flat in New York they can't manage alone. I'm not choosing them over my partner, I'm refusing to pretend there's a third option.
Side B (age 70)
"Temporary" has no end date in this plan. I've offered to help pay for a place nearby. That got called cold, which tells me the money was never the actual ask.
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