I keep cancelling on my live-in partner's friends. They say I'm making them choose.

Relationships · São Paulo

Side A (age 68)

I've said yes to 5 of these and left every one drained. I'm not asking my live-in partner to stop going, I'm asking to stop being the reason the invite exists.

Side B (age 56)

It's not the cancelling, it's that it's always the morning of. My friends have stopped asking whether you're coming. Say no in advance and none of this is an argument.

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