I keep cancelling on my long-distance partner's friends. They say I'm making them choose.

Relationships · Paris

Side A (age 33)

I've said yes to 6 of these and left every one drained. I'm not asking my long-distance partner to stop going, I'm asking to stop being the reason the invite exists.

Side B (age 51)

It's not the cancelling, it's that it's always the morning of. My friends have stopped asking whether you're coming. Say no in advance and none of this is an argument.

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