I keep cancelling on my partner of six years's friends. They say I'm making them choose.

Relationships · New York

Side A (age 49)

I've said yes to 11 of these and left every one drained. I'm not asking my partner of six years to stop going, I'm asking to stop being the reason the invite exists.

Side B (age 45)

It's not the cancelling, it's that it's always the morning of. My friends have stopped asking whether you're coming. Say no in advance and none of this is an argument.

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