I keep cancelling on my partner of ten years's friends. They say I'm making them choose.

Relationships · London

Side A (age 18)

I've said yes to 10 of these and left every one drained. I'm not asking my partner of ten years to stop going, I'm asking to stop being the reason the invite exists.

Side B (age 26)

It's not the cancelling, it's that it's always the morning of. My friends have stopped asking whether you're coming. Say no in advance and none of this is an argument.

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