I keep cancelling on my partner's friends. They say I'm making them choose.

Relationships · Vancouver

Side A (age 49)

I've said yes to 4 of these and left every one drained. I'm not asking my partner to stop going, I'm asking to stop being the reason the invite exists.

Side B (age 67)

It's not the cancelling, it's that it's always the morning of. My friends have stopped asking whether you're coming. Say no in advance and none of this is an argument.

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