I said no to moving cities for my live-in partner's job. Am I holding them back?

Relationships · Chicago

Side A (age 51)

My live-in partner got an offer in Lyon and expected me to hand in my notice within a week. My whole support network is here and my own career is finally moving. I said I'd consider it in a year, not in seven days.

Side B (age 48)

This is the offer I have worked 11 months toward and it does not wait a year. I am not asking for a permanent move, I am asking for two years and a plane ticket home every month I can afford.

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