My long-distance partner told their family about our fight before telling me it upset them.

Relationships · Barcelona

Side A (age 16)

I heard about my own argument secondhand from a sibling. My long-distance partner had described it to four people in Amsterdam before ever saying to my face that it hurt them. I can't fix something I'm the last to hear about.

Side B (age 16)

Every time I raise something directly it turns into a debate I lose. So I talked to people who know me. That isn't a betrayal, that's what happens when the direct route stops working.

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