My new partner checks my phone when I'm asleep. Is that a dealbreaker?

Relationships · Stockholm

Side A (age 36)

I found out my new partner has been unlocking my phone at night and reading my messages for about 10 months. Nothing was ever wrong in them. I'm not angry about jealousy, I'm angry that it was 10 months of being watched without knowing.

Side B (age 35)

I looked once, after months of feeling like something was off, and I kept looking because the reassurance wore off in a day. I know it was wrong. I told the truth the moment I was asked instead of deleting anything.

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