My partner of three years wants a big wedding. I want the $5,000 in a deposit.

Relationships · Sydney

Side A (age 49)

One day costs $5,000. That is the deposit gap that has kept us renting in Amsterdam for 7 months. I'm not anti-wedding, I'm anti-spending a house on an afternoon.

Side B (age 35)

My family has waited a long time for this and half of them will not travel twice. A registry office saves money and costs something you cannot price. I've offered to cut the guest list by a third.

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